Masters in the Art of Living

by evoker on May 9, 2012

in Self development

working or playingI had the privilege of introducing Pam McLean, president of the Hudson Institute, at their annual conference last month when I was MCing. People really loved this quote I used to introduce her, one from James Michener. Pam is a true master at living, so I thought it was appropriate.

Masters in the Art of Living draw no distinction between their work and their play,
their labor and their leisure
their mind and the body
their education and their recreation.
They simply pursue their vision of excellence in whatever they are doing and leave it to others to decide if they are working or playing.
To themselves, they are always doing both.

How are you doing at bridging the polarity of work and play? It is one of our big psycho-spiritual chores in life—to integrate our work and our play into a web, if not a seamless web, at least a somewhat integrated one.

The path for addressing this chore is the imagination, the energy we can use to bring our soul to both work and play—where all endeavors have an element of soul. The transformative power of the human imagination can turn the hum-drum into the hot-diggity, the menial into the meaningful. We can turn play less into an escape and more into a joy.

Happy visions of excellence, pilgrims. Leave it to others to decide what you are doing.

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Patricia and I just had an extraordinary experience with prison inmate hospice workers. Oprah has done a powerful documentary on the hospice workers in Angola prison in Louisiana, the largest maximum security prison in the US. The inmates have been educated to provide hospice care for dying inmates (5000, and most will die there—no parole for life sentences in five states). It is redemptive work. Some say the last time they saw someone die is the person they killed. Others serve life for three marijuana offenses—three strikes and you are out. I had the privilege of doing workshops on calling and the power of your past for these men, and the visiting women from the women’s penitentiary.

OMG! Which I don’t use lightly.

My friend Carol McAdoo has answered the call to bring hospice to prisons. When she started 12 years ago there were a handful of programs. Now there are 80.

The sorrow you can feel! The spiritual struggle and strength. The humility and humanity. The fact that these men and women look for ways to relieve suffering, their own and others.

The butterfly picture is from the quilt in the museum. The inmates (offenders in their language) do beautiful quilting. The word psyche in Greek means butterfly. The butterfly is being released from the shackled hands. The human spirit lives on, and on, and on.

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